Oh Lizadair. I remember that anger too well. Questioning why I had this damn surgery as I felt just as bad if not worse after it. I think youre only about two months out from surgery. Have hope it will improve. Trust it will. I would think if you can rule out pouchitis (try a course of antibiotics?) and if you limit carbs and take probiotics it will settle down.
And yes, I guess you could "choose not to complain " and just stuff all that anger and frustration down into your gut but it would just likely ferment into more gas (sorry Pouchbro).
And another aside- there is an upside to having an r-v fistula. Gas escapes through the vagina whenever it wants to. No control whatsoever!