Thank You all for your advice and counsel,but i will not live like a second class citizen,unfortunately i discovered too late these operations are a fraud,i felt better when i had ulcerative colitis,should not have listened too my local GI who advised these operations where necessary because i had low grade dysplasia,i researched and found out this is baloney.These operations have made me wish i was dead.
Don't take this the wrong way, because I sincerely mean it in an attempt to help. Just go back to the ostomy if you were ok with it. I've seen enough of your posts to know you don't have the personality and mental disposition to be able to tolerate the trial and error that will be crucial to your getting happy with the pouch. Just save yourself the hassle and go to the end ostomy.
I had all 3 of my surgeries at the clev clinic and they were performed by Dr.remzi and I would recommend him! He saves my life.