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Hi Gang,

Sorry, me again, but...I have developed a troubling issue in my recovery, and I'd like your feed back to see if it's common, or should I be concerned. If you've read my last post, you'll know my recovery hasn't exactly been smooth, but I seem to have hit a wall. In all my past recoveries, I'd start out by slowly regaining my strength by going for short walks, and doing odds and ends around the house. In the past five years I've had 2 minor surgeries, and four major ones, but this is the first time I've had almost no energy what's so ever.

Each time I try to exert myself, I literally can't do it, and am forced to sit down. On Thursday, we had a 20cm snow fall, as I was pulling into my buildings garage, a lady was blocking the enterence, stuck in the snow. I got out of my car, went up to her window, and asked if I could help. She was fom India, and this was her very first time driving in snow, and somehow, managed to get her wheels stuck on a snow bank (the plow, as always, left a nice big mountain of snow as it passed by). She has summer tires on her little Mazda, and had no clue what to do, so, I offered to give her a push, BAD idea! Not only did she keep taking her foot off the gas (there was a major language barrier, and she didn't understand much of what I was saying, obviously!, she put it in reverse, while I was behind her car trying to push it forward! (Can you say duh?). I pushed with all my might, to no avail, but the damage was done, my entire body just shut down, I could barely make it back to my car not ten feet away.

When I did make it to my car, I thought to hell with it, and pushed her car with mine, it worked like a charm (my car is front wheel drive, with snow tires, and 302hp, no problem!). As I was finally able to park in my underground spot, the pain in my chest wouldn't stop, and took hours to subside. Since that happened, I've had zero energy. I doubt it's cardiac related (God I hope not, that's the last thing I heed), but frankly, it's pissing me off. I went to my folks today, bought them a Xmas tree, and began to set it up, but I couldn't even do that, it was too exhausting, I had to get my hubby to help while I sat down, totally exhausted and out of breath. So....my obvious question to you is, have any of you experienced this type of energy drain, and if so, how did it resolve itself? At first I didn't pay it much attention, but the only time I'm not winded or have mild chest pain is when I'm sitting down for a few hours.

I'm sorry to trouble you with such a mediocre question, and I'm no stranger to post op complications, but this is a first for me. In the last week, I've been to the ER in two different hospitals three times, so I'm really not liking the idea of going back again. For now, I'm assuming it's just the result of having a two month long recovery because of the abscess and infection, followed by a wicked kidney stone attack, followed by a horrendous flu.....or....I just turned 46, I keep forgetting I'm not 20 anymore, damn I hate aging! Any advice you could lend would be greatly appreciated, thanks all, enjoy the rest of your weekend,

Cheers
Eric Eeker
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I am sure you know that the more you have to recover from, the longer it takes and the further you have to go. Each of your unfortunate events set you back and sap more of your reserves. Your muscles need gradual return to activity. I doubt pushing a car fits that bill!

And yeah, age is a factor. I was just about 40 when I had my final flare and j-pouch surgery. I was weak as a kitten for what seemed like forever.

Still, if you are worried. Bring it up at your next appointment.

Jan Smiler
So sorry sweetie,
I know that you think that you are Superman, but just like the rest of us, you are superHuman!
That means that all of the crap from the last 2 months plus all of the stress from the previous surgery (ileo) and its load of stress and complications are hitting you like a ton of bricks!
1. WTF are you doing pushing a friggin car 2 months out from your kpouch surgery??? Are you friggin nuts? (this is me screaming at you, very loudly)...I did stairmaster 6 weeks out and killed my pouch, had it rebuilt and did gardening (pulling weeds) 8 weeks out and gave myself a peri-stomal henia. NOW I know that you do Nothing strenuous for 1 year! (do you hear me? 1 Year!)
2. Dehydration comes to mind. You dehydrate more in winter than summer but don't realise it because it is cold out...up your fluid intake and add a few drops of juice to each glass (by the way, you should not be drinking tap or bottled water...you need a water filter system like a Brita...since my kidney stones 20 yrs ago they put me on filtered...it helps a lot)
3. Vit D + calcium. You need to give your muscles a boost. A multi-mega (chewable or gummies) and B's + some mag wouldn't hurt either.
4. Quality sleep. Naps. Hot tea with lemon, a nap every day.
5. Short walks. Nothing (did I say Nothing?) stenuous. No pushing cars, no lifting spare tires, no shoveling snow!!!!
This is your last shot, kid...so do not screw it up. Let others do the heavy lifting...you lift your spoon!
Hugs and no silly stuff
Sharon
Hi Eric. I'm the woman in the orange dress that you complimented on Facebook! And, I experienced symptoms like yours about 3 months after my k-pouch surgery. In my case, there was no pain but I was exhausted. Really, I felt challenged to walk from one end of our house to the other, forget about going upstairs. And I was winded. Also, my husband said my eyes looked "funny." When I went to my internist, he knew right away that I was dehydrated, about as dry as a person can be, and he hospitalized me for a week. After a week at home, I felt that way again and was re-hospitalize for another week. So we went back to the Cleveland Clinic where a scope showed I had enough ulcers in my new, and otherwise working, k-pouch that I was unable to absorb enough liquid. After a week in their hospital and lots of steroids and then 6-mp for years, I haven't had the problem again. Cleveland is FAR from my Virginia home, so I haven't been back there since and no one locally knows much about k-pouches, but so far, so good.
Good luck to you and I hope you feel stronger soon!
Sorry you are having problems still.
But I am a year out of surgery and I still do not have all my energy back. Sorry to disappoint.... But that is me you may not take as long. I have good days full of energy... Today is one... I wish I could string a bunch of good days together but I get the bad days cause I use my energy up and it takes days and days to get some back. I am hoping as time goes by I will just get it back. My energy. But I live with what I have and it is far better than it was. I hope for you as time goes by it gets better. But I know now it takes a long time for some... Me.... To sorta get back to normal. If this is my normal I am happy with it. I have no choice but I have faith that it will get better even more as time goes by and I would expect the same for you. I am no young pup and that has alot to do with it. Doing this surgery later in life is tough on your body and mind. But in the end it will work. I didn't think I would ever get to the point I am at. Never thought I would go back to work but I did.
Patience. That is one thing you have to have dealing with this. And like said above. Don't do things you know you shouldn't..... Ha... I should speak.... I learned that the hard way too.
Good luck to you and rest it up. Let it heal and it will all work out. Think positive.... Even in your worst moments.
Richard.
Hi Eric,

To add to the above good advice I suggest you be checked out for Chronic Fatigue Syndrome at your next appointment. I have it along with fibromyalgia and I hardly ever have energy. What I use to do without a thought I dread doing. I didn't realize how much energy it took to wake up, take a shower, brush my teeth, fix my hair, put on makeup, eat something and commute to work. Then you work and have to commute back home after working a long day. Then you have the whole dinner and daily house work facing you.

Hopefully you will get better with time but it won't hurt to check this out.
Wow! As has been said, multiple surgeries plus a little age, will definitely add to recovery time! As one who has been hospitalized many times for dehydration, shortness of breath and fatigue are some of my first symptoms. It usually means my potassium levels are extremely low as well. I am on two types of prescription potassium as I have a hard time just maintaining minimal levels.

Happy Holidays!

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