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I've read thru several posts re: pregnancy post pouch. I'm close to my 10 year mark post j pouch surgery. I've had 2 complications, a blood clot (dvt) at my initial surgery (2 step)and a hernia repair a few years later. My husband & I are now talking children. I'm 100% terrified. I feel like I've been so lucky up to this point and fear potential damage I may cause to myself, genetic predisposition to my potential baby, and whether I need to be concerned with another blood clot. My biological clock is ticking at 36 years old. My husband is not opposed to surrogacy but I'm not sure that it's necessary. Am I overthinking things?
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Hello--I would consult with your GI doctor and see what they have to say regarding your situation. I totally understand where you are coming from though being worried. I was worried too at first. I consulted my GI doctor and then we talked to a fertility specialist. I am 38 and did have a blocked tube. We decided to go for it with the okay from all doctors. Our first IVF try and we are expecting a girl in June. I have felt so fabulous this whole pregnancy. I feel better being pregnant!! I wish you all the luck and hope that you find some answers!!If you get the okay, I would go for it!!
I suspect docs will tell you there is no reason why you can't carry a healthy fetus to term-that's wht my GI & high risk OBGYN told me as someone with an 11-year j pouch surgery with subsequent complications person, anyway (of course you will want to have these convos with your own docs about your own specifics).

Of course, no one could "guarantee" I woudln't have complications, (reduced continence, pouchitis, be uncomfortable, develop hemmeroids, etc.)

My husband I were both very interested in adoption for various reasons, and that is the route we chose for making a family. We never attempted pregnancy, as it just wasn't something we felt called to (we felt called to adoption and I was nervous about possible pregnancy complications, so was an easy choice for us).

Depending on your state, surrogacy can be easier/harder, and costs of surrogacy or adoption, while maybe not much different than the out of pocket cost of pregnancy/delivery are obviously not covered under your health insurance, so that may be a consideration as well. And of course, if you do go the surrogacy route there are traditional surrogates and also just gestational carriers (with whom you can use a donor egg or your own-this would obviously not mitigate the small genetic propensity of IBD to your offspring).

Many with pouches have gone on to have healthy babies delivered both vaginally and c-section (although there does seem to be a higher rate of difficulty to conceive due to scar tissue) and others have used adoption or surrogates to create their families. This is a personal decision-there is likely no right or wrong answer.

Best of luck, whatever you decide! My children are my biggest blessings!

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