Depression has just been with me as long as UC has. But now I have a j-pouch, and this should be better, right?
I look back to my childhood and, really, all of my adulthood. I had these horrible bouts of severe depression that I later realized went along with UC.
I thought this was over once my colon was gone. But this year, man. A divorce, a job change, and I just don't feel like I am doing anything worthwhile with my life. I feel like I am failing at my job, I feel like I don't have any real friends.
I recognize that this is a problem. These thoughts are not completely accurate. The depression beast is sneaking back into my life.
I made an appointment with a counselor and I am taking antidepressants- lots of them. Why can't I feel better.
This is really getting old. I'm tired of using the bathroom all the time, I'm tired of this hideous scar from my emergency surgery, and I'm tired of feeling sick all the time. I'm always tired and I always feel faint. My doctors say I'm doing well. Is this just depression?
I'm on my own now and there is no one and nothing to catch me if I get worse, or lose my job. I have a nice boyfriend, but we just aren't at the point where I can talk to him about this. Plus, I don't want my depression to mess up another relationship. I wanted to do so much more in my life and I feel like a failure.
I feel so bad that I feel this way. I've been very lucky, and I see so many people here with so many complications. I don't seem to have many complications like the others, so why can't I just be happy? My surgeries were in 07 and 08. This was years ago. I should be just fine now, right?
I don't really know who to talk to about any of this. Just putting it somehwere. I feel overwhelmed. Yes, I'm getting treatment, but I feel like treatment doesn't help. Sorry to post such a glum thing.
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