Hello All,
I’m on vacation at the moment and I wish I could say I was having a better time. I love my pouch, but it’s times like these that make me so frustrated. I’m only 18, which means I go on vacations with my parents, which also means they control the menu. We’re also traveling with some extended family. We love to eat out, but that can really be a pain for me. Many restaurants don’t have ‘Pouch-Friendly’ options and eating out makes me really anxious. Normally I will eat whatever is put infront of me, but when I’m on a week long trip away from home, seeing those loose /watery stools makes me want to cry. I hate having watery stools in the first place because I feel like something is wrong.
Adding to the fact that I’m far from the comfort of my own home is really anxiety provoking for me. I cried in the bathroom last night because sometimes having a jpouch and not functioning like everyone else really sucks. Not being able to eat what I want, having to worry about a bathroom near, etc. I feel as if I go even more to the bathroom and have more trouble with looser stools despite the fact that I eat healthier on vacations then I do at home. Could my own anxiety be causing this? How do you guys cope with accepting that this is a ‘rest of your life’ thing?
There are some days that are so overwhelming and I just miss a life where my pouch wasn’t always in the back of my mind. Sorry for the long rant, but no one around me really understands!