Hi Guys,
I came home for my annual visit last month in the hopes to be able to spend some time with my dad...its been a long and difficult year with no news and tons of worry and stress. Family probles like so many of us know are born with our diseases and never heal.
Well, daddy fell ill (he is not spring chicken and has been hemi-plegic for 18ys) and was hospitalized...vascular problems in his foot...its blue.
Cut to the chase...after over a week on antibiotics and anticoagulants the circulation has not been restored and they are planning to amputate the leg.
Just saying that out loud aches.
To top things off I am "cut off" from all contact with his surgeon of medical staff...the family feud thing...and realise that the surgeon knows nothing about the D'Hellers-Danlos syndrom which plays a big part in the problem as well as the surgical decisions and outcome.
They won't let me contact the surgeon as per siblings orders (!) so I am going down there tonight and begging to be called back.
I have already warned them numerous times about the I.V.s...he has had his changed daily for the last week and has no veins left...he is a purple pin-cushion and is suffering...he needs a pic line...but no one is listening to me.
I need to scream but it wouldn't help.
Say a prayer...I need it tonight
Sharon
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