Hi everyone. I have at the pelvic pouch procedures completed in 2005. I had my son in 2012 at 36weeks I went into labor early. I had a vaginal delivery with complication and a sphincter damage with a awful recovery. We got pregnant easy last time but are having difficulties this time and met with a very good fertility/ob dr the other day. I told him about my past medical history and the fact that this baby must be a c-section. He advised me of something i was never told before that a c-section can also severe damages and the possibilities of coming out with an ilisotomy. I completely understand that he was just warning me and giving me a heads up of all possiblities but this has caused alot of emotional stress on me. I have honestly cried a few times in fear and trying to convince myself to rethink having another baby. I just dont know what to do and there are not many people who would really understand my fear.