Hi Everyone –
This might be me misinterpreting posts or being overly sensitive to language or something, but since this is the “rave and rant” section, here we go…
It’s been some time since I was last on the board and I’m noticing some concerning posts about folks posting out of their alleged, perceived, or believed demographic.
Here’s the thing, everyone’s thoughts are valid and can be of help. If someone wants to toss their two cents into a discussion that they don’t necessarily fit into perfectly, that is still a great thing. As long as they do it tactfully and respectfully. I don’t believe anyone should be considered to be “in the wrong place”, nor should anyone be afraid to offer thoughts.
Ladies, if you have a thought on men’s health as related to the J-Pouch, awesome. Same for guys on ladies health issues as related to the J-Pouch. Straight guys your thoughts on whether to or not to engage in receptive anal sex after J-Pouch can be just as important as those coming from another gay guy.
Bottom line is that we’re all here to help each other and I believe we can do that tactfully and respectfully whether or not we fit neatly into a given conversations set of demographics.
Just had to vent.
lots of love, Tovia