Honestly, mentally I was prepared for pain or pressure during...but hadn't read anywhere about after sex pain. I was ecstatic when there was no pain during then about an hour later... kablammy. It was pain like a week post takedown for hours. Thought it was a fluke...then again it happened. It is that deep visceral pain where you get nauseous. It was nothing I would have considered rough, but I remember something Jan wrote way back when about pressure during and thought yippie I am in the clear. I know it's a baby pouch so will just ride the learning process. Thanks for the input...