I am sorry to hear to had to go through this. There's no reason that anyone should accuse and demean others. Clearly they must have the issue. I have been on this site since 2014 or so. I agree the people on this site are life savers and know us like no other. I have learned so much and from u. I have read ur story and u have been thru hell and back like most of us had. This disease and the surgeries is No Joke. Take heart, it was the right thing to come back u can't let anyone take your Joy and keep u from people who truly care. Welcome Back!!