You were / still are a tremendous help to me when I was a newbie with a J-pouch. I'm not on this site much nowadays, because my pouch no longer defines me and I don't remember any useful advice to offer newbies or those with complications. I think of you often and mremember you kindly, as I'm sure many others do on this site. But, I get it... one bad apple can spoil it for the whole bunch. That's a reflection on their character, not yours.