I sure hope I don't have the prolapse. I would think that the xrays with gastrografin would have showed something. They were looking for blockages at that time but couldn't see any.
Small update for tonight. After my dilation I laid on my bed with a little bit of a blanket tucked underneath my belly and I was laying on it. I was afraid to push gas but I did and I didn't even soil myself. Pooping has been easier too since then. I guess I need to do the dilation even though I hate it but I can see that it helps. I wonder if the exit is too narrow for air bubbles to pass through. This would explain why I haven't passed gas for days if not weeks. No wonder I'm feeling so sick then. I haven't had the j-pouch for a full year yet and it's such a big learning curve. Thank you all for your advice and experiences and I'm sure I'll be back for more questions later.