There was actually some time where he was eating my ass for a few weeks, and at first the sensitivity of feeling his tongue down there was enough to send me over the edge, but I had to have a few drinks in me before I could even stand it. I'm very ticklish in my butt hole, and curious if the surgery (specifically loosing your rectum) causes increased severe sensitivity? Guess I am just overcautious.
Now fingering, on the other hand (Literally) is another story. I don't know that I'd feel comfortable with that just because I wouldn't be able to control my sphincter enough to handle it...I think. Plus, I don't have a connection with my asshole to my prostate- especially post-surgery, so maybe its just not meant to be for me. Who knows.