Hi Lee,
Welcome! We are here to help you and would love to do so.
I agree with BillV and YT’s sentiments. I have also been where you are today with the exact same feelings.
Would it be possible for you to give us some more information about your case and history?
I could ask a lot of questions and make a lot of general statements but I do not think that would be helpful, so if you could put some of your issues in context for us, I am very certain that our collective experiences will be of help.
I hope you are able to obtain the relief you are seeking.
eric