I've had a j pouch since 1991. I remember. Buying a new car and crapping in it before I could get home. My son is a chief deputy sheriff. And his deputies have discretion on medical emergencies as long as there's not reckless endangerment If you have his name or badge number. You can Write letter to Chief deputy or many Sheriff's Department have a complaints department For his demeanor or behavior. They will investigate I think police officers with bad attitude Give the good ones a bad name.
You're not Alone Hold your head high And keep trying.