So sorry to read about your speeding tickets. I now have a j-pouch and my need to use the bathroom is still frequent but I can always hold it in, even if it feels like burning glass. BUT, I had UC for years and years and years and this is bringing me back to those years of when I could not hold it. Gosh. I remember that I sat on old bathtowels and would often wear skirts so if I was driving and couldn't control my bowels I could let loose the bathtowels. I also took many roads that would make my commute longer, but would allow me to pull over and run into the woods or even just pull into a parking lot. I am sorry to hear about your troubles.