Wow Sharon, you must be married to one. Just so you know some of us have commute's to work to deal with. I drive an hour one way and there is a 45 minute stretch where there is no bathroom at all unless you want to stop beside the interstate (and get a ticket for that as well). This is a place to vent about conditions that we J-pouchers deal with, which I did. You would think you wouldn't be judged so harshly by someone who has to deal with the same issues. Let's all hope you don't soil your car seat with that Karma. Have a better day.