Thanks you guys.
I live in India. We do have good clinical facilities but those are in big cities. Mine isnt so big so getting a good ostomy nurse to change bag is not an option. I've been doing it with my mother assisting me from very start.
As for the amount its not above 1600cc but even with less than a half full bag i have to just empty it or it'll just pull the wafer off from the other side. I do use the stoma powder but coudnt get wipes to clear it off as amazon wouldnt deliver them here and no clinics got it. So that too doesnt work.
Being allergic to peanuts I dont have peanut butter. To thicken the output I usually have bananas,sweet potatoes,mashed boiled potatoes but then the output just would get so thick it wont move causing pancaking. Thats bad too shortening my wafer life further.
I guess its a rarely a problem for othes as only i've been going through this among all the people i've contacted so far.