Thanks Lablover. I am using depends because I need more absorbency. I am thinking now that Imhave some kind of abscess or fluid collection. I have a large, ropey mass that extends the length of my perineum from my anus right up to vaginal area. It is incredibly painful to even a gentle touch. It is tender and I think is leaking some yellow fluid. I'm going to try to get in to see my GP tomorrow. She probably won't have a clue as to what she is seeing but maybe antibiotics re in order. Hope this resolves soon.
PS. I love labs too!