I know this is an old thread so I apologize for reviving it. My fiancé wants to try anal sex and I made an appointment with my doctor to get educated on the subject. I have a Jpouch (done in 2003) and my doctor told me that it’s safe as long as it’s slow, there’s lots, LOTS of lube and it’s not frequent (maybe once a month). We haven’t tried it yet cause even tho I was given the green light I’m apprehensive about it since I don’t want anything to damage my pouch. He didn’t look at the type of Jpouch I have or anything but then again he’s been my doctor since 2002.
With all that said we have done fingers, and each time it was less painful than the last, I can take 2 right now and they don’t go all the way in (again I get scared of damage)
Now I’m worried after reading some comments and other posts about this tho 😬