I had retrograde ejaculation which slowly subsided. It came back over a period of a year or so but never to what it was before surgery (I also had chemo and radiation). So giving it time is the right way to go. I am older and have children and so not interested in the fertility aspect of this issue. I think the lack of ejaculation may be a bigger issue for gay men. While I am happy it returned, it wasnt that a big deal to not ejaculate (for me). It just came back I didnt do anything. There are, from what I have read, not very good treatments for this condition.