Hi Jan.....well unfortunately I Do still have my Rectum . This is my worry. I have only met my Lady friend and the wonderful sex we had was the first for a long time !! I will Not risk losing that just when I've found it again . I had almost forgotten how goox it feels. My pefformance was ....almost Flawless ( so she says !) lol...so I want to keep it that way . I can satisfy a woman even without getting hard but would prefer to give her the full treatment since she loves it so much that way.