Jhendrix, I definitely get that we have to think about what our significant other is going through too. I'm much better at my actions making up for it than my words. I think that's why I'm so angry about it. He is spoiled rotten. And I do that because he misses out on so much because he's home with me when I'm sick. I do try to go out and do things as a couple that he enjoys. I try to make sure he doesn't see how much pain I'm in or how exhausted I really am. And then he complains that I'm faking it. But there are times he has my full support in going with his friends. I just need to be able to get a hold of him, but then I can't. So of course I'm going to be mad. Sometimes it's just a no win situation. It's been a few days and he's still talking about moving away, but unsure. As a completely healthy adult he just doesn't understand this isnt something that's going to go away or get better. Or that it's the most upsetting for me. The person that has to live with and the person that has had every point of there life uprooted because of it.