I just need to vent a bit. I have been in a relationship (engaged for just over a year) for almost 5 years. Just a few days ago we got in a fight and he let it slip that I have ruined his life because I'm sick all the time. He is 10 years younger than me and I've been extremely understand about him going out and doing 25 year old things. I just need to be able to get a hold of him, in case of a emergency. Before we even got together I was extremely transparent about all medical conditions, because I didn't want to ruin his life. During our time together I've had 1 major surgery keeping me down for 4 months. I'm mostly extremely exhausted and want to relax when I'm not working. I work 12hrs a day and work 6days a week quite often. It's just so rude. It's not the first time I have had someone say my disease is ruining there life (including my family). My thought is how dare you think its ruining your life.....what about mine? I'm the one that has had to constantly change my lifestyle habits to make life work. It's not something that's ever going to go away. So I'm so sorry that I've inconvenienced you but F off.....
My question is has anyone been abandoned by loved ones because of what is out of our control?
Previously I was married and my husband was diagnosed with cancer and passed away. I couldn't imagine just leaving him sick and alone. What kind of person does that.