Thank you all so much for your responses. Each of us has our own unique spins on similar experiences.
I am finding that diet is playing a key role for me. Still stumbling with butt and gut-friendly foods and learning that moving slowly with new foods is smart!!!!
Aside from all of the physical pains, having a solid and positive mind is SOOOO key!!! I must admit that after all of the meds, surgeries, and set-backs staying positive is one of the hardest things to do. This mess will soon pass and one day I won't even think of my pouch until I have to sit on the toilet!! LOL.
Thank you all again!