Thanks for the idea, Marie - why didn't I think of that?!? I've also been doing some research on-line and found some pads for fecal incontinence I intend on trying. Will update if they work, in case anybody else has similar problems.
I have a note in to my surgeon re. "treatment", if there is such a thing. The drs. at Cleveland Clinic told me it was normal to expel "stuff" once every few days, as the pouch keeps producing mucous, etc., but this goes waaaaay beyond that. Could be diversionary pouchitis, although I feel good otherwise, or as you suggest, my cuffitis. Hopefully, treatable.