CT - you seem to make other peoples threads about yourself and you bring yourself out as a shining example of how to live their life, while saying the OPs are wrong for feeling the way they feel because that's not how you feel. That needs to end. You aren't being empathetic at all. You're being dismissive and judgemental. This is a forum for helping people, not patting yourself on the back and telling everyone else they are wrong for feeling something you dont.