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Oh please I mean no disrespect to your beliefs either! Its simply the way I feel about things but that doesn't mean at all its the right way to live, but rather has helped me in a way to live my life. 

That makes me so happy to hear you have someone that makes you feel that way! It must be wonderful having a daughter. I'm actually a sophomore in college and way too young to even think about that yet. My boyfriend has been with me since the start of all this and honestly I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him (which may sound childish). He's been with me through thick and thin and even though all this is going on, I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. I really appreciate your offer and I may take you up at some point. I'm so sorry your sister did that, I know all too well what its like for family (my case extended) to take the rug out from under your feet of having family to rely on. The only extended family I speak to anymore is my grandfather who is not as good with his memory in his old age. From experience, if she had done that its probably for the best so you don't have to deal with rejection or toxicity repeatedly. Through the years of dealing with rejection from one entire side of the family I realized they weren't really there for me from the beginning and honestly my life is so much better off, so I hope this is the case for you. 

Oh thank you so much, its been really hard since the diagnosis with my mom and all and you are definitely right . Oh my gosh thank you so much I really appreciate it and your kind words. After I get my footing with the surgery and all, I hope to return the offer to you as well. It would be really nice to chat with someone going through similar experiences and all. And yes, it all certainly has been troublesome but i feel as though I have been through worse and that I can make it through this. The pain of the surgery is something thats still daunting to me though but physical pain is temporary.

Thank you for everything!

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