What a bummer Sharon!!! I could envision you - as you are such a good writer plus it took me back to my daughter's wedding reception. It was 7 years before I needed the colon removal and j-pouch surgeries - JUST UC. By the end of the reception I was no longer wearing my panty hose and eventually went home, changed into jeans and went back to help with the reception winding down. The wedding party and guests were still dancing! I don't recommend wearing spanks that include your bra and snap at the bottom of your crotch. Not with anything active like UC, Crohn's or j/s/- pouches. It doesn't even seem possible for those with ostomies or k like pouches wo wear spanks at all!