littlered--thank you for naming the situation so well. i concur.
sharon is, far and away, the most knowledgable, helpful and giving person within this support group. she has helped me immensely, and from reading her other posts i know that many others benefits from her generous gift of support. that's what support groups are about. each of us has, in some form or another, difficulties that we bring to the board. then we help each other. we are a family that is there for each other. families do disagree, but please keep those disagreements to your biological/adopted family. thank you, i appreciate it. jan