OMG so sorry to hear that you’re going through all of this. I hope you have support from other family and friends.
I do way too much for him. But I feel helpless otherwise so I don’t mind doing what I little I can. My husband does have my back and supports me.
He had his surgery today and is back to an ostomy for now. We will take one day at a time and focus on healing and eating and getting stronger.
I hope that the situation improves for you. I will reach out to you once everything settles down here.