Evox,
I gave up on bandaides and tegaderm etc years ago...way too expensive. I have been using those mini packets of kleenex as patches. Very absorbant. If you are really leaking a lot, then fold up a paper towel...they are super absorbant.
I use a cut up minipad against my unddies and the kleenex against the stoma...the double protections is perfect.
I only use the bandaides when wearing a sexy dress or bathing suit.
Sharon