Unfortunately i cannot offer you advice but i can tell you I am in the same position you were prior to your redo and understand your frustration. I.have severe anal stenosis w ulceration at my cuff and in my anal canal and have been prolonging the inevitable redo surgery.
I would try and remain optimistic. If the surgeon has corrected the anal stenosis and you have to endure a few more months with the ostomy it will be well worth it in the end. I know how frustrating a leaking ostomy is as i dealt with that during my first takedown as well It’s also frustrating to deal with all the complications and pain that have led you to a redo surgery
I wish you the very best and commend you on your bravery to address your issues as I have not worked up the courage to face two more surgeries to hopefully correct my ongoing anal stricture and stenosis.
Please keep us posted as to your progress. You are still pretty fresh out of your surgery. In time i hope your ostomy will cooperate and you will be feeling much better.