I’m almost a year post op, 38 years young, and just got pregnant for the first time. The surgery has literally changed my life, my ability to do things I enjoy and the way I enjoy life. I have been through three obstructions, so I want to reiterate that it’s not an easy road, but in my opinion it’s worth it.
Min terms of the take down surgery, idk if it will be more challenging for you since you’ve had your ostomy for longer than I did (2 months). Some times adhesions or scar tissue will be a concern. Just go with the flow and follow instructions from the doc. Keep an eye out for funny stuff (sharp pain that doesn’t go away), fever, signs of dehydration, etc. The gas was pretty intense for me at the beginning. I felt like I was in the bathroom 15-20x a day. But it does get better. Using some barrier- type of cream is going to help a lot. I’d suggest using that every single time you go. Also, you may want to invest in a Bidet - I love mine and I believe it helped cut down on the but burn. I also suggest wearing a depends or a pad to bed at first. You may find a little leakage when you relax during your sleep. Have wipes on handy (or jump in the shower, if you don’t mind waking up) if there is an accident.
Do you know what time of wound/incision you’ll have for the old ostomy location? Are they packing it or using staples? I remember some people said their doc didn’t do a thing and let it heal from the inside out. I think my doc chose staples bc if there was an infection, it would be easier to put a drain in.
Anyhow, I hope this helps. Let us know how you make out!