I had my pouch takedown at age 61 almost 62 and I believe it has a lot to do with what kind of shape you are in as well as your outlook and of course the expertise of your surgeon! I had 3 surgeries (laparoscopic) and my recoveries went well. I feel better than I have in a long time, much healthier. So while age can make a difference, it is not necessarily the main component. While the ileostomies weren't the greatest, they were manageable, the j-pouch is certainly a whole lot better! Lovethegrey, good luck to your husband! Hope it all goes well for you both!
It does take patience because the adjustment is about a year! I can't tell you how many calls I made to my surgeon in the beginning. I had my first scope in July and all looked well. So I won't see him for quite a while as long as I continue to do well. If you ever want to PM you are welcome to.