I was able to start working part time about 6 weeks after takedown but probably could have gone back sooner. Really practice kegels when she is able to. That should help also. Starting school half days may help because you are usually more active in the later afternoon. Lomotil or Immodium can help with this once the surgeon gives the ok. I was in my 60’s when I had my surgeries and my sister was in her twenties. We do have a friend who’s son was about 12 at the time of his. I can ask her how she managed with him as far as timing of surgeries. His was done about 20 years ago.