Thanks Shylock. Good to hear I'm not alone. I really just avoid public restrooms of any kind now. I just couldn't take it anymore. I stay home a lot and for me, this is the right decision. Of course I go out and do things, but not for more than a few hours max. My husband and I have separate bathrooms at home and I really like this. I guess to me, my privacy is just really important. I appreciate your comment - many will say, "just get over it" - well, no, I can't get over it. I got over it for years and years and then said, "no more of this." At home - I still hate going all the time, but I am beyond thankful for my privacy. It's becoming really important to me as I age. Thanks for the supportive comment!!