Hi M,
All I can tell you is that an end ileo gave me a normal life. After the first several months I was able to slowly reintroduce a normal and varied diet and return to all my old activities. No one ever knows that I wear a bag. There are so many varieties to fit your personal needs and what a relief not having to know where the nearest bathroom is located. I hope you are happy with whatever decision you make and that you have a much better 2021