Hi,
and I thought I was the only one!
basically, I always have a cotton ball btw my cheeks. My wife of 31 years understands the situation. On the nights I know something is going to happen, I make sure I eat early and have taken my immodium. I then hope for the best.
but in reality, I will be walking my daughter down the isle in a few weeks and I have to time my day just right, so I don’t feel the need to take a crap while she is exchanging her vows.
there are multiple situations that we have to navigate in order to avoid that feeling of ‘oh no, why now?’
after a year of pouching, I pretty much know my body, what works, and my transit times. I think I can manage most situations at this point, butt 😊, it does taking some planning.