Reply to "Finding it hard to stay optimistic"

FrancesMember

Thanks for much for you kind words Jan. I am working on apologizing all the time and saying I am sorry when it comes to my illness. The guilt of negatively effecting our whole life is very hard for me to handle some times.

It really show how your life can drastically change and sometimes its out of your control. That's the hardest thing excepting I cant fix it. I am a people pleaser and love to help others but for some reason don't feel the same about myself. I have always done as much as I can to take of everyone and feel so worthless now.

There is a little saying I have attached to my vanity so I see it every day its says.

(Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind)

That's what my homework for last two weeks to stop saying im sorry when its not your fault but you just feel bad.

Thank you for the advise

Frances

4/11/163:17 PM

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