I used wet wipes initially, mainly because it was recommended by the Hospital, as well as being suggested within most of the j pouch literature I read; although without making a conscious decision, I slowly reverted to using toiler paper, although I still keep wet wipes on hand, as they’re useful for other tasks.
I’ve never endured butt burn either, so it can’t be a consequence of using toilet paper.
Do the regular users of wipes, dispose of them into a bin or flush them into the ocean ?