I have a question for Jeffsmom…what is TPN? Also someone mentioned foods that absorb fluids. Could you give me a few examples? Last, regarding A&D ointment…because it's greasy I never used it. It's probably best, however, if you need to protect the surrounding area. I find a prescription cream, not ointment, called Hydrocortisone Valerate 0.2%, used sparingly, clears up any irritation/inflammation almost immediately—overnight or within the same day—even when it's inflamed to the point of bleeding. Also, I never use dry toilet paper. My sink is right next to my toilet so when I'm done going to the bathroom I use water on my toilet paper as much as it takes to be clean, and then only dab with dry paper to avoid irritation when done. I also use Cottenelle wipes if necessary. When I first got home I had a foaming cleanser from the hospital…no rinsing necessary, and it was great! I can't find it anywhere, including ordering they Walgreens, et al.
Hope some of this helps.