Hey Mike,
I was 44 when my colon perforated and I had an ostomy for 11 months. A couple things you should consider when deciding what is best for you. My supplies for the bags were VERY expensive and I had 100% coverage so it didn't cost me anything but I often wondered how others could afford the O rings, tape, bags, wipes, barrier creams etc. that go with a bag. I am an active person so I selected a j pouch because of my lifestyle and honestly, the bag caused me lots of problems with leaking and skin burns from the acid etc. I eventually got it under control and was really fast at changing my bag and getting it right so it wouldn't leak. It's a personal choice but I caution you to research and ask lots of questions. No one told me my bag would randomly leak, explode if not on correctly etc. I had blow outs in Costco, family functions, in bed with my partner etc and it was horrifying. Good luck!