You guys were so right! It was tough immediately after the surgery. I actually had “emergency” surgery 4 days after the original surgery for an internal bowel leakage. Then a subsequent abscess (which was to be expected) but everything healed much faster than I expected and “sitting” up was doable from day 1. I sat on my sides of course (like people suggested) but I was convinced I would be laying like I was in a coffin for 6 weeks. I am even up and out running errands and driving.
So in summary, early days were more painful than I expected, but on my stomach and not my backside like I expected. Then I healed faster than I thought. Now I just need to gain some weight.
I can’t thank everyone enough for all the kindness and support. I truly was terrified to go for this surgery even though I knew I needed it and it was you guys that got me in there. It truly is amazing.
Thank you all!