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Hi Marn, 

I had my first colostomy at age 2, then moved on from there. Nighttime and daytime incontinence were my life for years until I finally got my K pouch that sort of freed me to live my life the way I envisioned it. 

I tried to get pregnant after getting married at 19...I managed with difficulty but was never able to carry to term...my uterus was folded over. They called it a hemi unterus. No one could ever tell me if it was due to all of the surgery or just that I was born that way.

So, in the end, my fertility was a problem. I never managed to have kids of my own so I raised a lot of other people's. Then I married a man with 2 of his own and I got 4 grandkids out of it.

It is a hard journey for some of us and many never make it but...being a mother is not always a biological choice. 

Sometimes it is a question of being able to give your love to a child that needs it most.

I teach and consider my students like my kids...

I would never have been able to teach if I hadn't had my pouch done. So it was a trade-off and honestly, I had no choice. 

Don't worry about it too much right now...live your life and enjoy it. 

Sharon

 

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