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@Former Member posted:

Wow. "And C-sections are MANDATORY." This is so far from accurate... Check this article from 2014, just read the abstract, you will see:

https://idp.springer.com/autho...utz_L7V3zmGyf71ae_6A

Lauren, you might be well-meaning, and this excessive confidence might simply be your style. But spreading wrong information on a site like this is actually very harmful to people looking for help and support.

Now, I would also recommend against vaginal delivery to any j-poucher. But, unlike you, I am not confusing my opinions about risk-taking with the actual facts. Not only you sometimes unintentionally confuse your opinions with facts, you sometimes push your opinions as facts with strong emphasis and confidence on others. You do this on a regular basis.

This comment has nothing to do about bullying. Bullying involves threatening and intimidation.  I am not trying to intimidate you. This is not the first time that I am giving you feedback on the wrong information you are spreading. If we would not correct you when you are spreading falsehoods on this site, people would get hurt.

Not everything we claim has to be true, we are not oracles. Yet, before pushing your very strong bold and upper cased opinions on others as facts, just do a simple google search beforehand.

First of all: My surgeon and doctor told me it was mandatory, I got that info from medical doctors, it was not an opinion of my own.

Second of all: One out of the many situations from which you are referring to was about me saying not to weight lift with a J-pouch. I got that from a medical doctor and I looked up extensive information about how weightlifting is dangerous for a lot of reasons. We J-pouchers are more fragile than colon folks, so of course it would make sense doing extensive stuff like weight-lifting can hurt us more. These are medical facts. I do extensive research on everything I post on here; I am not going to post evidence on everything I say, if you would like to research what I say like you did now, you are more than welcome to.

I do not mind people disagreeing with me but I do not appreciate some of the stuff you have told me in the past and I do not appreciate some of the stuff you have said now. In the future, I hope your approach to things are more respectful. If you disagree with me, post your opinion and let it be, but you do not have to call me out, just post your opinion.That is all I have to say.

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