@Lauren Of Emerald City posted:I do not have kids but my colon surgeon told me that vaginal deliveries are out for J-pouchers. And C-sections are MANDATORY. Breech position??? Definitely MANDATORY for that too, a vaginal delivery in breech position is DANGEROUS!
I would not worry about scars when it comes to my health; scars are your battle wounds/scars; it shows what you overcame
Wow. "And C-sections are MANDATORY." This is so far from accurate... Check this article from 2014, just read the abstract, you will see:
https://idp.springer.com/autho...utz_L7V3zmGyf71ae_6A
Lauren, you might be well-meaning, and this excessive confidence might simply be your style. But spreading wrong information on a site like this is actually very harmful to people looking for help and support.
Now, I would also recommend against vaginal delivery to any j-poucher. But, unlike you, I am not confusing my opinions about risk-taking with the actual facts. Not only you sometimes unintentionally confuse your opinions with facts, you sometimes push your opinions as facts with strong emphasis and confidence on others. You do this on a regular basis.
This comment has nothing to do about bullying. Bullying involves threatening and intimidation. I am not trying to intimidate you. This is not the first time that I am giving you feedback on the wrong information you are spreading. If we would not correct you when you are spreading falsehoods on this site, people would get hurt.
Not everything we claim has to be true, we are not oracles. Yet, before pushing your very strong bold and upper cased opinions on others as facts, just do a simple google search beforehand.