I have a Coco bidet that I have used literally thousands of times and it amazes me how dependable it is at five years old! On the down side, it is higher-end cost. (I have the remote one, control (batteries) on the wall -- I think 9500R?)
I do use the higher pressure fairly often on mine, but as Scott said, some of the features are excess conveniences -- nice to have but not mandatory. I do not use the heated seat function very often, and I find the dryer way too slow to be effective and just dab TP, instead. Lastly, I think the heated water capability would almost be a requirement for me. I do use all the temp adjustments.
I know there are some pretty good options out there! When I travel I do take a bottle, but I really miss my bidet!