Hi Charlie, wow big decision right. My UC was similar to ctbs. Fast and furious. I only had it for a year and a half. Never had remission for more than weeks at a time. Anemia, blood clots, weight loss, 6 blood transfusions in a seven month period. For me, I was sick of being sick. I opted for the j pouch. It hasn't been perfect by any means, but I've passed the one year mark now and things are starting to go my way. I was 59 when I had my last of three surgeries. In my opinion, the only thing for me that would have been better is if I could have somehow achieved a healthy colon. That wasn't going to happen for me. I happy with things as they are now. I think above all else, you need to think of your health, and everything else will follow as it should. Even if it means maybe no more children. Good luck to you. I hope whatever you decide that it turns out okay. Keep us informed.
Aimee